Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Tribute to my childhood home


This is a black and white photo taken of the back of my childhood home in 1994 (not scanned but rather I took a pic of it), just moments before my twin sis was married in our lovely backyard.


Here's that same home some 14 years later when my Mom and I went to visit it in 2008, a good eight years after they moved out. The home was empty, but it was trashed and delapitated and so sad.

And, as one of my oldest friends told me over Facebook the other day, that house has now been torn down. So I'm going to share some of my fave memories and pics of the home I grew up in and lived in until I was 19!


The First Day of School shot under the kitchen window at the back of the house (I'm on the left and my twin is on the right) was an annual ritual. This is us our first day of grade 9.


Here we are again (me on the right this time) in the front yard in April in the early-mid 1970s with our blue ponchos. Aren't we bloody cute? We grew up in the country so we played outside all the time. Every tree and field carries a lovely memory.


Our beautiful lilac bush in the front yard, close to where the poncho pic was snapped, was always a glory. We would snip the fragrant branches off and pile them in huge rose bowls placed in front of windows, so the sweet lilacy scent would blow throughout the house.

Here I am wearing an emerald green dress with mega shoulder pads (next to my Mom on the left) in the Spring of 1988, when I was a mere 18. Sigh. Collagen is another thing that's disappeared over the years.


In 2008, that same lilac bush, which had been transplanted years earlier to accommodate a new well (yes I kid you not: we grew up with a well). You can see the overgrowth and general crap littered throughout the yard.



Behind the lilac bush up a gently sloping hill was what we called The Sandpile, essentially a sandy field that farmers attempted to plant in for years. But when my sis and I were really young, it was just a sandpile, and we would play in it even though it was a good five minute walk from home. We could see the house from our vantage point up the hill, and I'll never forget Mom and her friend, who were having coffee in the house on day when we were playing in the pile, telling us  to wave our arms if we wanted help and they would see us.

By the time I was 14 when this silly pic was taken (in May of 1984 - can you see the 'rat's tail' at the back of my short hair cut? I imported the look from England a few months earlier after a school trip there and was the first in my school to have one, ahem. Then every one got one and I chopped mine off), the farmers had abandoned The Sandpile again. I used to love coming up here in my angsty teen years. I'd watch the beautiful sunsets to the west. It was calming, and a very special memory.


That sandpile in 2008: grown over. Barely recognizable; kind of like you'd image the decay described in The Day of the Triffids to unfold.




I'll end on a happier note: Christmas in the early-mid 1970s, with my twin (standing) and me (with almost blond hair? Maybe it was the light) in front of the gift that henceforth and throughout our childhood was called The Little Table. The green metal table with vinyl floral top and chair covers was set up permanently in the kitchen, and when company came over, my sisters and I would dine at it.Otherwise we'd use it for Tea Parties.

That Little Table is still in my parents' basement! My sister used it when her kids were growing up!!

More to come tomorrow. Thanks for reading.

8 comments:

  1. This is such a great story. Thanks for sharing something so close to your heart. Your little house reminds me so much of my chilchood home, and I do know exactly what you mean - there is a sinking, sad, wistful feeling when you go back and see something that was once cheerful and is now neglected.

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  2. Aww, this made me a little bit sad. I love your nostalgia, the pictures and memories. Great piece for the blog! :)

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  3. Sad that the house is now torn down however Kelly no one could ever tear down your beautiful tender memories. You and your twin were sooooooo cutie pie-e-sh ! Lovely, lovely photos.

    See you at dinner in my little shack tomorrow night.

    Cathy P.

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  4. I love that photo of you guys in Grade 9. One of you with - gasp - parachute pants. And the other with the gigantic round 80's glasses. Both of you with "flock of seagulls" hair. Cracks me up.
    Sorry to hear about the house - I have a lot of "first day of school" photos in the same spot I think! xo Lori

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  5. Six Balloons, it was nice to share and get it 'out there', so to speak. Took the sting away from the neglect the place suffered in the last decade and made me feel so much better. Thanks for reading!

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  6. Thanks Shan Van. It was therapeutic to share with you all!

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  7. Cathy P - thanks hun bun! We were so cute weren't we? And thank YOU for such a fab, fun night at your 'little shack' - let's do again soon! xo

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  8. Lori, I know, don't you just want to hum, "And I ran, I ran so far away ...." when you see the grade 9 pics?? Kendra bought those parachute pants in Weyburn, Saskatchewan with Clayton the summer of '84 - another reason to be sentimental about them. xo

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